Here are a few of my views about having amazing oral sex together:

For a tantalising cunnilingus experience, try teasing your partner by kissing and lightly touching her outside of her panties until she's begging for more. Women often need more time to warm up than men, so taking your time with gentle touches can be an incredibly effective way to set the mood.

No matter if you're performing fellatio or cunnilingus, it's essential to show your partner how much you enjoy pleasuring them. Technical skill is important, but it means nothing if the giver seems bored or uninterested. Use your voice, make eye contact, and smile to let your partner know just how thrilled you are to please them.

During cunnilingus, it's crucial to spread the labia wide open. This creates more space for you to explore all angles and sides of the clitoris, providing heightened sensations for your partner. It may feel intimidating at first, but don't be shy - get in there and fully embrace the folds and contours of her body.

While a tongue offers a different sensation than fingers or sex toys, knowing what feels good for yourself during solo play can serve as a helpful guide when communicating desires to your partner during oral sex. Take note of what pressure, speed, and pace feel most pleasurable for you in order to enhance the experience with your lover.