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*Hedonistic Pleasures* GFE, Tie & Tease or Much More! Experienced Mistress, Playful, Strict when required! very exciting and you'll be back for more! See Tabs for more details

Gender Female
Orientation Bi-sexual
Country United Kingdom
Region South East
Town Burgess Hill, Haywards Heath, Gatwick, Brighton
Nationality British
Postcode RH15


Hello and a big welcome I'm Miss Helen Ryder, I'm a multi faceted Lady who offers hedonistic pleasures and games. I'm a wonderful Sexy Companion as well as tie/tease and domination pursuits separately. It's absolutely essential to read tab for FULL information ;)

I've been described as a "Kinky Temptress, Disciplinarian and a "Deliciously Deviant Cougar!

Visit me in my own gorgeous sexy playroom with some very exciting toys and my own very special touch

REAL TIME IN PERSON MEETS: I may ask for a non refundable deposit if you have zero/low or flaky feedback. Those with zero feedback should be gaining feedback & asking any questions via the phone/cam system

I require THREE full hrs notice/booking form (deposit if asked immediately) if I'm available of course. Any eve bookings need to be Enq/booked at 4:00pm cut off point to come along at 7pm or by 8:00pm the latest visit to me, finishing at 9:30pm

I've a lush curvaceous body that I love to dress in sexy high end lingerie, sexy dress's, Leather & latex or strict disciplinarian type wear for spankees. Role Play various outfits especially kinky Nurse.

Solo Erotic/Intimate or Domination sessions with Myself & DD with another lovely Mistress or Master (see links at the bottom of My profile)

Lots of NEW FILTHY PICS & Sexy clips I love to torment & tease!

My sessions are unique and bespoke I am very well equipped and have a play room kitted out for BDSM activities. ALL genders and sexualities are welcome

BDSM & CP RATES: ONE Hour from £160 for basic play, 90 mins £220 Two hours £280
30 mins short sharp shock or quickie pegging £130.

Please send a message to include dates/times, any health conditions or allergies and brief outline of your desires

My Availability

I'm normally available every day from 10am to 8/9pm (in person) around a little later for direct chat, I schedule in time off to recharge My batteries around the play times booked in. Email with your dates to ask.
Same day (may be possible) THREE hours minimum notice with deposit paid within 20 mins of chatting with me to arrange.

I'm available for phone chats as and when able too, look for the green phone icon to show I am online for chats and just call.

Location and Booking

I'm located in Burgess Hill, West Sussex, local location given once I have a confirmed booking form.

Want to cum Play

Sensual or Strict just ask ;)

BDSM/Pegging in the PLAYROOM: I have so many cocks, toys, machinery, gadgets and dungeon furniture all in My own private play space, I never rent out to anyone else! If you enjoy domestic discipline on my comfy chaise end sofa with you across my knee or over my desk then let me know.

***The Wand, Slubb or VENUS 2000 Milking Machine as part of a session IF desired (if not booking me as an escort)***

*Sensual* teasing* playful...... to the more exotic and STRICT darker heavier side of domination, your limits respected.

Come enjoy a unique experience with a lovely lady that differs for each client in order to accommodate our own personal desires and boundaries! I'm not a one trick pony churning out the same session for all!
*No high heels due to tearing my ACL/meniscus (I am mobile & working)

In Brief:

CLIPS some explicit
Tie and Tease, MILD BDSM
DOMESTIC DISCIPLINE I'm an accomplished DISCIPLINARIAN, leaving perfectly placed stripes on you
WELL EQUIPPED FETISH PLAYROOM to include EStim, Violet Wand, Pegging and so much more
DOMINATION, many aspects so read My profile, yes to fisting you!
FETISH & SENSUAL MASSAGE Different price structure applies, see tab
TV DRESSING bring your own clothing and SISSY MAKE-OVERS

SHARED CONTENT I'm interested to work with other established ladies and may consider gents who already have a fantastic web presence and high fan base, working with precautions who test regularly & have certs and taking PrEP

Ms Helen Ryder XXX


Gifts are appreciated and please ask me for details of the sort of lovely treats I would appreciate
Here are a few ideas if you wish to bring something along as a surprise:
Basic staple Fever Tree LIGHT tonic (cans in blue box)
Perfume: SANA JARDIN Berber Blonde or Revolution De La Fleur
M&S Rosie or Autograph underwear Bra size 36DD/E and panties UK 14
Agent Provocateur Bra Size 36E Panties size L or size 5
Honey Birdette Bra size 36E size 14/L panties
Gift Vouchers for Allsaints clothing, UK14 in Allsaints if you wish to buy something
Money in a little gift card or envelope (I can put it towards something lovely) Thank you
verve clique champagne Rose or Brut

A lady in the restaurant, an absolute minx in private! Companion bookings to gentleman over the age of 40 read below in FULL, thank you kindly XX

Any nakedness or mutual touching/tickling & intimacy

60 mins £220 90 mins £330 Two hours £450 I do not offer longer play sessions but do offer social dates/play
Dinner/lunch Dates are £550 FOUR hours in total to include at least TWO hours play. Dinner/lunch to be covered by you

FFM for couples One hour £270, 90 mins £350 & Two Hours £470


Please note I have a lovely sexy curvy mature figure, I do train in the gym and also jiggle and wobble in all the right places. Age 40-70. Mature gents: I can still be your sugar babe! Sorry but No long beards or very excess rotund gents.

I am always groomed to perfection and expect the same! Come freshly showered, washed hair, brushed teeth. Sorry but absolutely NO ciggy smokers (vapers are fine)

**REGULAR Seeking Arrangement** FOUR get togethers a month to include lunch/dinner if desired (treats from you) plenty of flirting by mobile in between, all within what you seek/our boundaries pre agreed, duration will be a minimum time of two hours per visit with scope to play longer/chill/relax and anything social that we might plan as we progress. To pay quarterly in advance or set up a standing order for the first of each month £1,700 if longer hours/overnights are desired then we chat & agree on the regular tribute. This is suitable for those who work away a lot or need a deeper connection without the risk and danger of an affair. I am great at keeping secrets!

Time constraints: TWO meet ups a month: This could entail flirting by text, daily messages & exclusive pics, 2x2 hr play/intimate time and lunch/dinner £950.

Adult party: Attend a naughty party with Moi & My partner (those with good reviews) £750 for the evening, lets have LOTS of fun!

Nights or Days out: POA:
Theatre, live music, the races, museums, art galleries, picnics, the beach etc all POA and travel/food/drink & out of pocket expenses covered by you.

I'm happy to share some Champagne or Prosecco but do not take any other stimulants and expect the same, thank you. I don't mind if you wish to take a little blue pill.

I always wear sexy lingerie under any outfit, please let me know if you have a particular kind of style, maybe a roleplay scenario if desired. sexy secretary, MILF, Nurse etc


Please send a message through AW or direct email via My own website first

Introduce yourself, the style of play you seek along with a selection of dates/times you know you can come out to play & really commit to having a great time with me!

Include any meds/medical conditions, allergies or phobias that I need to be aware of

It's ok if you are completely new to the wonderful pleasures of BDSM, if you are experienced then let me know

We can then arrange to have a chat, equally if I am logged into chat then just use the direct chat system for any questions.

When we've agreed on the date/time & length of play I will require a non-returnable 50% deposit or other means I can explain if you share a joint bank account, to secure the real time in person play time. Provided you give 24hrs notice I will move this deposit to a new play time to be used within a 2-month period.

Please read my profile & FAQ's before you call me or complete a booking form as rates vary due to style of booking, thank you

***Experience the Slubb or the wand at the END of your massage for a very happy ending, or let me know if you want to be more sexually interactive. I will be wearing some very sexy skimpy lingerie***

I have been qualified since 1998

Massage Pricing & Details

ALL massages (other than elite) now start from £180, this includes mutual light external touching of bottom/breasts only.

THE ELITE EXPERIENCE £190: Start with a nice hot shower and body scrub to waken your senses then into My playroom for a sensual hands on teasing massage to include sensation play using My wonderful array of adult toys, encompassing sensual tactile touches with light flogging, feathers, specialist cat claws & other delights, such as Light anal play with *small toys such as anal beads for this scenario and you will be on a comfy bondage bed, It's a feast for your senses, not simply cock focused, it's about engaging the big brain & hypothalamus (the growth receptor part of our brain) in order to experience more liberated pleasures of the flesh! It's all about your mind. body & spirit, not focused just on Mr Willy, rest assured you will have a very happy ending!


*For the bum addicts I do have much larger toys but don't wish to scare the lighter play people off.

Domination and Fetish



The ONLY intimate on Me BDSM activity from a sub is you rimming My arse at an extra £90 for the privilege, you on your knees and Me bent over a comfy bench in front of a mirror! This isn't available to all, it will depend on factors on the day & who you are, bring extra just in case, still have fun doing other BDSM activities if I don't want to be rimmed!

Provide a short not too specific list of likes, wank fodder/fantasy style emails especially when you have no feedback & been on here a while are ignored. Use the direct chat system if you wish to prove you are genuine in graphic chat.

I carry out a deep clean between every session with hospital grade cleaning sanitation products.
intimate examinations on you
Spanking/Fucking bench, comfy bench for either activity! in my fetish play space.
Bottom worship
Comfy massage couch
*** NEW State of the art suspension bench, with cage underneath, fully removable stocks, Floating suspension inner board for pallet wrapping, MANY tie off points***

I love a good roleplay if that's your kink, just let me know in advance, from being a deviant Doc or Nurse, a wicked Mary Poppins type or anything else, run it by me!

Overnight BDSM midweek stay (Mon-Thurs) at a boutique dungeon/apartment in Brighton (min 48hrs notice to book)
4pm to 10am check out £2500 I will require 7 hrs sleep! There is a comfy bed for Mistress & sofa bed for slave

Sensual alternative massage a light intro to BDSM

Domestic Discipline OTK, bench Over sofa etc

Strap-on Queen!! Yes I really am an EXPERT I have taken many a virgin in my time and have lots of different sized cocks to suit all levels of play, lots of teasing with gloved lubed up fingers, all toys covered in condoms and sterilised for your hygiene and safety. I mainly shop from babes n horny & JT Toys so all my equipment is very good quality.

LEGAL NOTE: ALL play is with your FULL consent given, safe words in place & they MUST be used if you want an activity or session to completely stop.  I will then stop the session, check if you wish to continue in ANY aspect.  ANY play that took place before you used a safe word was legal with your full consent, not coerced in any way!

Anal play over my knee for prostrate examination or up on the couch or fucked on the bench I have all manner of cocks/beads/plugs and my expert fingers to probe you with.

Bastinado Caning & whipping on the soles of your feet

CBT Ball kicking & slapping etc CBT play (nettles, pin wheels, electrics, tiger balm etc)

Cage or Confinement only (being left alone) £100 first hour then £80 per hour after (only to those who are 100% fit & healthy)

Corporal punishment MY Favourite, from a light caning right through to Judicial Caning, what level do you like to play?!

Enema receive a good flush out with an enemaONLY AVAILABLE in bookings of 1.5hours or more and an extra £10 to cover the disposable items used. I use sterile one use enema packs on you or sterilised bulb. Enemas are given in the bathroom only. If you wish for me to use an enema & empty over you in the bath tub it will be an extra £150 on the tribute. Note that I do not offer full HS sessions.

Ginger figging Raw Ginger root inserted into your anus before CP to warm things up nicely when you clench!

Medical roleplay and various procedures Best to ask Me in a phone chat via AW system or email over what you have in mind as I play on the lighter side of medical so nothing extreme!

Nylon encasement Head to toe in sheer or opaque hosiery, if you are very tall then you may need to purchase your own much larger sizes in hosiery to bring to session. If you are able to & enjoy 20 den hosiery it's a £5.00 surcharge to cover the disposable packet of 5 or simply bring your own.

Pallet WrappingConfinement onto a couch, every part of you encased in wrap with just your nipples/cock/balls to play with.

Role play Police Woman,, Strict Bitch Boss, Bossy Bitch Girlfriend who cuckolds you, Nurse, Matron or Doctor, other ideas are welcome ;)

Shaving I do love nice smooth balls, hairless bum holes so let Me take care of that

Strap-on with various sized Mistress cocks from newbies first time to the more experienced.

TV's Sissy's I can supply basic stockings & suspender belt and make up if desired. Please bring your own clothing along in a discreet bag.

Venus 2000 milking machine, elite machine costing over £1K

Wax Play Using specialist bondage candles with a lower melting point over your nipples/cock/balls/anywhere else!

• [b]Extended Sessions POA depending on activities

Overnight caging or locked in the bondage roomTwo hours play then a meal/down time and caged/locked from bedtime around 11:30pm to 7am/8am the next day £550, only available to existing clients I've seen before. Meal will be either a takeaway or out to dinner with you treating Mistress. A morning shower Coffee/Tea/Toast before you depart.

MY MISTRESS ATTIRE It's best to leave this to me as I will select something that I feel is appropriate to the style of booking. Polite requests might be considered but if your request is down to the nitty gritty of colour lipstick and sounds too controlling then I will NOT consider it! If we have agreed on a role-play, then I will of course be dressed for the role-play ;) I love getting into character. I wear sexy lingerie, fetish clothing or corsets in a booking. I do love dressing up as a Nurse in either my NHS wear, latex or PVC Nurse uniform for medical RP's :)

Do I switch? NO! Only spanking etc in My movies with My established partner

Please see my FAQ's for anything that isn't covered within my profile, if there is something that I haven't covered then send a polite concise email

FANTASY Phone chat I can be who ever you want me to be in ANY role! Your sub slut, depraved insatiable whore for prime cock, BBC, your Mistress etc surprise me ;)

Webcam: I'm a mature kinky Mistress, there will be elements of teasing but remember it's about you are pleasing Me and shoving toys up yourself, NOT Me performing for you! I DO NOT GET NAKED ON CAM

BOOKED PHONE CHATS COST MORE as you have 10 FULL mins access to My vid clips when you book a chat to view for FREE

Cum be My filthy slut on cam, bring that hard cock and have JOI or lots of other fun!
I love to laugh and be entertained so come and have some fun on cam.
I only broadcast sound in private, it's text speech in group, there will not be standing/give us a twirl requests in group. Anyone demanding anything of Me and not showing respect WILL be booted out of group.

If I am showing as green then book a chat whilst I'm available, pop an outline of your topic/fetish interests in the booking form and this MUST be a min of TEN mins, less time will be rejected"


I do enjoy a kinky filthy sexual chat, to include all diverse topics of fetish and sex, if you're up for a sexy challenge and role reversal on the phone, why don't you do all the filthy talking and get Me horny whilst I lie back with My wand and listen to me cum ;)

NO SILENT CALLS as people can't seem to make it clear what the topics are that they wish to hear and I do not allow ANY recordings of conversations

Special Requests

Pop the details in the booking form or tell me when you call (5 secs is all it takes I catch on fast!)

Graphic email exchange

I do not like protracted emailing as from experience it leads nowhere. You can always book a phone session and talk with me or send an Adult Work credits voucher over to cover high volume emails FIRST.


Please be on time with booked chats, the onus is on you to be available & on time and NOT run over, as I do not give refunds unless there is some fault my end


  • Oral
  • "A" Levels
  • BDSM
  • Voyeurism
  • Watersports
  • Spanking
  • Exhibitionism
  • Toys
  • Uniforms
  • Fetish
  • Depilation
  • MMF 3Somes
  • FFM 3Somes
  • Moresomes
  • Swinging
  • Parties
  • Sub games
  • Domination
  • Massage
  • Being Filmed
  • Humiliation
  • Rimming
  • BDSM (giving)
  • BDSM (receiving)
  • Rimming (receiving)
  • Spanking (giving)
  • Spanking (receiving)
  • Domination (giving)
  • Domination (receiving)
  • Humiliation (giving)
  • "A" Levels (at discretion)
  • Facials
  • Oral without (at discretion)
  • French Kissing (discretion)
  • Receiving Oral
  • Strap On
  • Prostate Massage
  • Striptease
  • Naturism/Nudism
  • Foot Worship
  • Double Penetration
  • Modeling
  • Female Ejaculation
  • Face Sitting
  • Role Play & Fantasy
  • Sauna / Bath Houses
  • Tantric
  • Tie & Tease
  • Snowballing
  • Anal Play
  • Penetration (Protected)
  • Cross Dressing
  • 15 Mins "quickie"
  • Travel Companion
  • Dinner Dates
  • Food Sex/Sploshing
  • Pussy Pumping
  • Sybian & Machine Sex
  • Disabled Clients
  • Enema
  • Gang Bangs
  • Hand Relief
  • Fingering/Finger Play

I meet with

  • Male
  • Female
  • Couple MF
  • Couple MM
  • Couple FF

Incall rates

Duration Cost
½ Hour £160
1 Hour £160
2 Hours £280
3 Hours £390
4 Hours £600
Overnight £1700
15 mins £160
1½ Hours £220
¾ Hour £160

Outcall rates

Duration Cost
½ Hour £250
1 Hour £250
2 Hours £460
3 Hours £630
4 Hours £800
Overnight £3000
15 mins £250
1½ Hours £350
¾ Hour £250


Q : CFNM events

A : This is possible, I only do them with other Professional Mistress's either at My home or at a dungeon. You need to have a large budget and pay a hefty deposit so everyone's time isn't wasted! POA depending on how many Mistress's & any other request taken into consideration. My rate is as advertised and £100 extra organisation/admin fee, plus the other ladies rates and any other sundries

Q : Will you fist me or any other questions?

A : If I have replied yes to something you have asked & asked you to call Me via the direct chat AW system then CALL, it's more productive to spend a couple ££ chatting & getting to know each other than msg ping pong :)

Q : Why do you require a deposit?

A : Simply, it stops time wasters! It enables me to get geared up & feel excited to meet you, knowing you've committed!! It's via bank transfer (preferred) or a gift card code, which I will give details once booked. Ask Me It's non refundable, moveable to one new date with 24hrs notice given. If for any reason I cancel I will offer your deposit back or ask if you wish to move to a new date

Q : No number, how do I book?

A : Please write a nice little intro message with style of booking you want, duration & timings/choice of dates you can commit & a little about yourself. You can also call me via AW direct chat when I'm showing a green phone icon/available

Q : What's your location?

A : By car just off A23 25 mins south of Gatwick, I'm in Burgess Hill just 5 mins from St Pauls and there is free parking right outside in a lovely area. Nearest station is Wivelsfield but Burgess Hill station is also fine & better if you require a taxi If you prefer a commercial dungeon I can see you at The Gatwick Dungeon, Brighton dungeon or Bayswater (or other London dungeon) hire fee/travel expenses for either place will be paid by you on top of my tribute, pricing over on my own Domination website

Q : What form of payment?

A : AW Credits for phone chat/cam ONLY! NO EXCEPTIONS EVER!! MASSAGE/DOMINATION BOOKINGS:I accept cash UK Sterling in real time bookings & non return deposits for meets direct to my PERSONAL bank account preferred or another way I can give you info when we discuss (applies to those with no feedback or bookings of a lengthy duration 1.5hrs+) Details given when you contact me.

Q : I require discretion

A : If in public we spot each other then we will be polite and ignore each other. Taking deposits & only giving My location to committed bookings helps keep you safe too from unsavoury time wasting address collectors! I keep My business very low key

Q : Outcall rates/travel

A : My outcall rates are showing on my profile for a distance of 10 MILES MAX with a min booking to your hotel & possible private home with vetting. Further mileage will be reflected in the full tribute by POA, please provide your postcode for a quote (typically FROM an extra £100/£150+ & a two hour MIN booking) For any other premises such as a commercial dungeon that will need to be booked 48hrs ahead then contact me for POA 50% Deposit of paid in full just before I set off to you

Q : Will you travel to London, Scotland, anywhere?

A : For the right booking yes, it will be just you booking Me for a lovely long playtime such as lunch, overnight with out of pocket expenses covered by you. I do not tour.

Q : Do you offer outdoor sessions

A : NO not here. Happy to visit you in your very private garden

Q : Are you qualified in massage?

A : Yes I am, with over 17 years experience and continued CPD points to keep my skills up to date.

Q : How hard do you play in CP/Spanking?

A : I will always respect others boundaries and whether it's a red rosy bottom or if more can be taken on your bottom. Communication is key! Please note I do not switch for clients


Q : What is your starsign?

A : Virgo Aug 24 - Sept 22

Q : What is your Primary Language?

A : English

Q : What is your favourite colour?

A : Blue

Q : Who is your favourite celebrity?

A : Helen Mirren

Q : What is your best feature?

A : Boobs

Q : What three words best describe your personality?

A : confident, fun, flirtatious

Q : What is your favourite food?

A : Japanese, Thai, French & Gastropubs

Q : What is your favourite drink?

A : Veuve Cliquot Rose

Q : What is your favourite film?

A : The Gentleman

Q : What are your favourite flowers?

A : Love various in the garden, do not bring flowers

Q : What is your favourite perfume?

A : SANA JARDIN Tiger By Her Side or Berber Blonde

Q : What is your favourite gift?

A : Perfume as above, or tip me, NO FLowers! Thanks

Q : What is your favourite holiday destination?

A : Thailand & Greek Islands

Q : What is your ethnicity?

A : Caucasian (White)

Q : What is the colour of your eyes?

A : Blue

Q : What is the colour of your hair?

A : Blonde

Q : What length is your hair?

A : Medium

Q : How would you describe your body type?

A : Curvy

Q : How tall are you?

A : 5'7"

Q : How much do you weigh?

A : 12½st

Q : What is your leg measurement?

A : 32"

Q : What is your shoe size?

A : 7

Q : What is your dress size?

A : 14

Q : What size is your chest?

A : 36"

Q : What is your waist measurement?

A : 30"

Q : What is your hips measurement?

A : 38"

Q : What is your bra cup-size?

A : DD

Q : How would you describe the size of your breasts?

A : Medium

Q : Are your breasts natural or enhanced?

A : Natural

Q : How is your pubic hair fashioned?

A : Shaved Completely

Q : Do you smoke?

A : No

Q : Do you have any tattoos or piercings?

A : Tattoos

Q : If you have tattoos or piercings, how discreet are they

A : Visible

Q : Do you have any birth-marks or scars? If so, size and location?

A : What does this have to do with anything! None

Q : What times are you always available?

A : From 10am till 9pm but varies

Q : Will you do overnight bookings?

A : Yes

Q : List of Towns/Areas you will visit

A : Dungeons I have listed at a premium

Q : How long are you prepared to travel for?

A : 1½hrs

Q : Nearest rail station?

A : Burgess Hill

Q : What is the most embarrassing thing that has ever happened to you in public?

A : Recently went to Waitrose & as I pulled purse out of bag, also pulled out black lace crotchless panties! hahahaha I pretended they were evening gloves & stuffed back into my bag with a smile :)

Q : What sort of men turn you on?

A : Confident sexy men with great hygiene! Who make an effort with being clean & smelling great, fresh minty breath & fab personality, good looks a bonus but not essential

Q : What sort of women turn you on?

A : Sexy, groomed, confidence & again cleanliness!

Q : What is the most memorable sexual experience you’ve ever had?

A : Being a sex pet to an older couple in my 20's, MMMF & many more exciting times

Q : What is the most outrageous thing that you’ve done sexually (be honest!)

A : Gang bang yrs ago with another lady & I want another!

Q : Where would you most like to have sex?

A : Beds are comfy Outdoors in summer is nice

Q : What is your favourite sexual position?

A : Me on top

Q : What is your second favourite sexual position?

A : Doggy & missionary (to kiss)

Q : What is your biggest turn on?

A : Kissing & a man who knows his way around my body

Q : The most sensitive part of my anatomy is?

A : My clit

Q : Describe the experience (when and where)

A : Which one, odd question

Q : What is your favourite sexual fantasy?

A : Group sex Gang bangs Cinemas Sex clubs Outside sex

Q : How often do you masturbate?

A : Often

Q : What sexual activity do you enjoy the most?

A : Fucking

Q : When is your libido at its highest?

A : Late afternoon or evening

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