TOURS:

UPCOMING TOURS: TBA
MULTI MISTRESS GROUP PLAY PARTIES IN WALSALL, BIRNIGHAM FEB 2025.
Feb 11th - A Foot fetish & trampling Party followed by a sploshing pool party
Feb 12th - A lunchtime and evening milking party, and a mid afternoon extreme anal, fisting & BIG toys party
Feb 13th - A bondage escape party followed by a meet & greet social party
PLEASE SEE THE EVENTS PAGE OF MY PERSONAL WEBSITE FOR MORE INFO AND TO BOOK A PLACE.

Please see my personal website from the menu: EVENTS for multi Mistress group play play parties, or UK Sessions >Availability & Tours > for more detailed info about general tours and how to book, and to subscribe to updates and confirmations on my tours in your area.


I WILL TRAVEL ON REQUEST TO BRISTOL, BIRMINGHAM, LEEDS & LONDON FOR MINIMUM 3 HOUR BOOKINGS:
The rates for each location are as follows:

LEEDS: Minimum 3 Hour session £410 / £110 for each additional hour / Travel Surcharge £60

BRISTOL: Minimum 3 Hour session £470 / £130 for each additional hour / Travel Surcharge £40

BIRMINGHAM: Minimum 3 Hour session : £500 / £130 per each additional hour / Travel Surcharge £60

LONDON: Minimum 3 Hour session £800 / £200 per each additional hour / Travel Surcharge £150
Overnights are also possible in London, 12 hours from 9pm to 9am for £1600



SESSIONS IN SWANSEA:

I receive my sessions on an incall basis at my fully equipped studio, outcall can be difficult as I don't drive and so will depend on the location and circumstances, but I prefer to do outcalls for clients I have already sessioned with at least once in my studio. (A 50% deposit will be required for all outcall bookings.)

PLEASE MAKE SURE YOU HAVE CALLED AND SPOKEN TO ME BEFORE MAKING A BOOKING REQUEST ON AW, I WILL NOT CONFIRM IT UNTIL WE SPEAK IN PERSON. I DO NOT ANSWER PRIVATE NUMBERS & I DO NOT RESPOND TO WRITTEN MESSAGES IN TEXT OR WHATSAPP - CALLS ONLY

I like to have the day's bookings all confirmed before midday as after this time it can be difficult to answer enquiries when I am engaged in sessions, and as most people manage to contact me before midday I can't guarantee I will still have availability after that. If I don't hear from you by midday on weekends I will go out to run my errands so you may not get a booking at all! Please take this into consideration when trying to make a last minute booking after midday, if you are unable to reach me on the phone then keep trying, even once my session has finished I will never return calls or reply to texts to protect your privacy, so please only call and do not send text messages or Whatsapp messages, I will not reply to them. Any contact information missing about me here on AW can be found on my personal website linked below.

RATES FOR FACE TO FACE SESSIONS

1 hour session £170
1.5 hour session £240
2 hour session £300

Then £110 for each additional hour, or see my special sessions on my website for more detailed pricing on extended sessions.

DO NOT insult Me by asking for discounts, this is not a market stall where one can barter, I am the Mistress and you are the sub! I operate My own private dungeon and My rates are carefully calculated based on the personal investments made on My skills and equipment, property and studio expenses, wardrobe expenses and much more, the basic rates are non negotiable.
I wouldn't enter a designer shoe shop and ask for a discount on a pair of Christian Louboutins, and it is equally inappropriate to ask such a thing of a world class, experienced Domina! Sad though it is, there are those who can and those who can't, but such is life, I am not a charity and I will not foot the bill for your pursuit of pleasure!

Please be mindful and respectful of the costs involved to make such an activity possible, especially when done to the exceptionally high standard that I provide.

EVENTS

From February 2025 I will be hosting multi Mistress group play parties in the midlands every 2 months.

The events will be held at The Facility Studios in Walsall, Birmingham, with the assistance of 2 of the Facilities resident Mistresses, Mistress Katerina and Mistress Beth Bedlam. We will also invite various different guest Mistress to join as at different parties throughout the year.

The details for the next planned events are detailed below, but please keep in mind that we may not throw the exact same parties every 2 months, the themes may change depending on popularity and new ideas we come up with, so if the upcoming themes are of interest to you I recommend that you capitalise on the opportunity and book at your place, as I cannot say when or even if we will throw parties with these same themes again.

For more detailed information about these events, and to book your place, please visit the EVENTS page of my personal website.

While the events I’m hosting are only in the Midlands for now, I am making plans to host something in Leeds and potentially Scotland so keep your eyes out for these events in future.

PARTIES PLANNED FOR FEBRUARY 2015

February 11th:
12pm – 3pm – Foot fetish, shoe and boot worship and trampling party
4pm – 7pm – Food sploshing inflatable pool party

February 12th:
12pm – 2pm – Milking, bondage and sensory deprivation / stimulation party
2.30pm – 6.30pm – Extreme anal, fisting footing and BIG toys party
7.30pm – 9.30pm - Milking, bondage and sensory deprivation / stimulation party

February 13th:
12pm – 6pm – Rope and device bondage escapism games party
7pm – 9pm – Meet and Greet social mixer, drinks and snacks to chat to and get to know the Dommes, you may attend even if you haven’t attended one of the other parties, this is an opportunity to get a feel for us and hear the experiences of other party attendees if you are thinking about joining future parties.

April: TBA
June: TBA
August: TBA
October: TBA
December: TBA

PRACTICES

I have divided the individual practices I offer into 2 categories, these categories aim to separate the painful games from the psychological games! Of course that doesn't mean that pain can't also be cerebral, or that a more psychological session can't be some form of sado-masochism, there's nothing like a good mind fucking to get my sadistic juices flowing! It obviously all depends on the individual!

I can perform each of these practices in a playful or extreme manner and you are welcome to request practices that are not listed here, but please keep in mind that I follow the rules of SSC and RACK in my BDSM play, the purpose of what I do is to cause pain NOT harm. I'm not interested in doing anything that will leave you with more than a light scar from say a whip,, or any other kind of lasting damage to the body. Apply a simple rule - if what you are asking for means that you will incur injury to the point of requiring medical attention from a competent professional afterwards - then I am likely to say no. I believe in sexual exploration through pushing our boundaries, not self annihilation.

FETISH/CEREBRAL
Foot Worship: Boot & Shoe Worship: Nylon Worship: Rubber, Leather & PVC Worship: Smoking fetish: Pissing and Spitting: Foot : General : Trampling: Humiliation: Public Humiliation: Dehumanisation: Bondage: Confinement: Sploshing: : Slut Training: Sissy Training: Role Play: Queening: Erotic Tease: Sexual Tease & Denial: Body Worship: JOI: CEI: Orgasm Control: Ruined Orgasms: Coerced Bi:

SADO-MASOCHISTIC
Spanking: Paddling: Flogging: Whipping: Caning: Kicking: Slapping: Bastinado: Ball Busting: CBT: Nipple Torture: Electro Stimulation: Fire & Ice Play: Tickle Torture: Anal Play:
(I am extremely sensitive to foul odours, anyone coming to me for a session of anal play should present themselves to me only after an emptying of the bowels and a thorough enema.)

All of these practices can be performed in a soft or extreme manner depending on the individual's experience, and most can be performed without leaving marks on the body.

I am open to suggestions for fantasies and practices that may not be listed here, (if not listed under NO on my rules page!) as long as they conform to the guidelines of SSC Safe Sane & Consensual.

SPECIALIST SESSIONS

Coerced Bi Group Sessions

***CURRENTLY ON HOLD WHILE I GET SET UP IN SWANSEA ***

I have been really struggling recently to organise bi sessions ad hoc, while there are plenty of you interested in such scenarios, arranging 2 subs to play with each other that are both available at the exact same moment is frequently rather difficult, even if you can fix something down - shit happens, plans change, appointments get cancelled.

Everybody has their commitments between family and work and these things obviously have to take priority, but it does mean that most of these session requests end up being unfulfilled so I am changing the way I arrange coerced bi sessions to try and improve this situation, I appreciate there is not a lot in the south west region that caters for this particular taste.

So I now hold a group Bi session on the first Wednesday of every month from 1 pm to 3 pm

How To Book Because this will be a group situation I will require 48 hours notice of your intention to join, I require confirmation of your participation ahead of time to know if we have the numbers to go ahead with the session. If a group opening is taken by only 2 participants, you will both be informed so you can decide if you still wish to go ahead.

In order to avoid wasting the time of a whole group of people, a deposit of £50 is necessary to confirm your booking, it can be paid by bank transfer or gift card, however, if I have to cancel the session for any reason (everyone else drops out, sudden illness etc) your deposit can be refunded or transferred to a future event. (more info on cancellations and refunds below).

Deposits must be paid by the end of the day on the Monday prior to the Wednesday session, if I have not received your deposit by this time you will not be attending, you must not be late paying because if there are already small numbers involved this could lead to cancellation of the group session, even if you still intended to pay the deposit later it could be too late and re-organising everyone a second time is a huge hassle for everyone involved.

If you are interested in attending coerced bi group sessions then you need to complete the application on my personal website, from the main menu select "UK Sessions" then from the following page menu "Special Sessions" to find the form. A week before each group session you will receive an email to your registered address to remind you of the impending date and provide booking info if you wish to secure a place for yourself.

Prices As it is a group session it will be charged at slightly less than My usual rate:

2 hour slot for £200.

Cancellations / Deposit Refunds If you have paid a deposit but the session ends up being cancelled due to low numbers or expected participants not paying their deposit, you can choose between a full refund or having your deposit transferred to a future group session date. Refunds will be made by bank transfer, but if you paid your deposit by gift card then your deposit can only be transferred to a future event as your money is locked with the gift card and I cannot retrieve it to refund you.

Once your deposit has been paid, it will not be refunded or transferred if the session goes ahead but you don't turn up, even if you give a few hours notice.

What To Expect In A Group Session When in a group session it is important to remember that not everyone in the group will be at the same level, some of you may want more than the others can cater for and nothing can occur between the subs present without explicit consent between yourselves and not just to me, so you do not have to worry about doing anything you do not really want to.

It is up to Mistress to best partner you all off within the group according to your varying levels of experience and limits, give commands on your activities and supervise the situation at all times.

With that said, as long as all are in agreement any degree of filth between you could occur, cock sucking, ass fucking, facials, gangbangs, bukkake, , there is no limit to the debauchery that I will get you involved in other than your own personal limits. Mistress will also participate with a large strap on!


Judicial Punishment

In a judicial punishment scene you will be read your punishment and given your sentence, a set number of strikes to be counted as you receive them.
You will be stripped, bound tightly over a chair or bench in a kneeling position and the top of your thighs and kidney area will be protected by rope.

The punishment can be carried out with a range of different instruments, canes, whips, floggers etc, with heavy strokes to the end without mercy or stopping regardless of your pleas, cries or tears. THERE IS NO SAFE WORD!
If you make too much noise you will be gagged.

you will only leave once you are fit to go.
All equipment is sterilised before and after judicial punishments, I am happy to sterilise the equipment in your presence.


Sissy Maid Training

In a sissy training session you will be transformed into the perfect feminine domestic Maid.
It is necessary an extended session of a minimum of 4 hours at a cost of $500, for a complete transformation. The session is divided into 3 parts, first the physical transformation.

You will wear feminine underwear stockings and heels, a wig, make-up and of course a maids outfit!
You will also be subjected to chastity and orgasm control, as a means of desexualising the male out of you!
After proving to me your feminine grace and prowess in such attire, we will then proceed to the second part of the session, domestic training.

Under the watchful eye of this very demanding Mistress, and also by remote control methods, you will be required to perform a number of domestic tasks within my household, to a very high standard, in order to learn how to maintain a Mistresses home to her complete satisfaction. Other than domestic maintenance you will also learn how to serve your Mistress properly in a domestic environment, how to present beverages or other items She has requested, how to properly set the dinner table for Her at meal times, how to prepare the bathroom before bathing and so on.

The final part of the session is a complete assessment of you and your work.
You will receive points for different things such as feminine grace, the ability to follow instructions, speed of response, enthusiasm for the work and of course the quality of the work. After the assessment, the punishment and rewards will be decided and applied!
All your assessments will be kept on record for continuous reviewal of your progress over longer periods of several training sessions.

I receive many emails on a daily basis from submissives offering themselves as candidates for domestic services.
Whereas I am always looking for serious, reliable, competent fulltime personal sissy maid, I will not waste my time trying out each and every one of the 20 candidates that contact me every day, only to discover that 90% of you are useless.
If you would like to be seriously considered for the role as my personal sissy maid and you believe you are really up to the job, it is necessary to book an appointment for a sissy maid training session, where, during basic training and under careful assessment, you will do everything in your power to impress me, so that I have no other choice but to offer you this prestigious role in my private life.


Imprisonment

There are few limits when it comes to games of imprisonment. From a simple police arrest, to a military interrogation, you can be a restrained mental patient, a caged animal, or even taken from a public place to find yourself in captivity. You could be a convict arriving at prison subject to a cold hose down and an anal inspection, the possibilities and fantasies are endless.

My studio is equipped with a beautiful cage perfect for such occasions, all that remains is for you to contact me by email with your role play fantasy so we can discuss how to make it become a reality...


The 24/7 Experience

I generally find that brief sessions of 1 or 2 hours is enough to fulfill most basic fantasies, especially at the beginning of a relationship during that "getting to know you" phase. But sometimes our fantasies are or become a little more complicated and require more time, care and attention.

I understand that most submissives that come to me do so not only to benefit from my guidance but also because unfortunately their private lives do not permit them such a lifestyle. Work, family and social obligations can make it impossible to commit to a fulltime D/S relationship, but that shouldn't prevent you from experiencing and enjoying all the wonders (and trappings!) of 24/7 daily slavery. Beyond the kinky games in the dungeon, the role play, and the punishments, wouldn't you like to know what it's like to fully serve a Mistress on a 24 hour basis, being completely integrated into Her personal life?

This is what I can provide for you with the "24/7 experience" extended sessions.
For periods of 12 hours, 24 or even 48, you can discover what it's like to kneel beside Me and serve Me in every aspect of My normal daily life.
During this experience you will live as and be treated as a domesticated slave at all times, fully controlled, permitted to sleep only in the slaves cage, eat what I permit when I permit it, following My every order and begging My permission for every personal need.
A number of duties will be performed by you, from personal services to your Mistress to domestic chores and public service, and as in any normal session, bad behaviour will be punished and good behaviour will be rewarded.

I recommend this experience only to more serious and experienced submissives. I will always respect your limits in regards to pain and psychological humiliation, and will always protect your health and safety, but I expect you to fulfill any task that is asked of you during your stay in My home. Anyone who fails to demonstrate the necessary respect towards Me, My home, My rules or My orders, will be severely punished and caged for the rest of his stay for wasting My precious time.

If you think you can book 24 hours of My time to do nothing but lie at My feet and masturbate the whole time, or only perform the tasks that you prefer, you can think again!
This is a fully integrational experience, you should be mentally prepared to live under the conditions set for a real slave and perform any number of ordinary or even absurd tasks that I may set you, without hesitation and without complaint.

LONG DISTANCE SERVICES

Chastity Key Holding

If you are unable to serve Me in person but are looking to be in enforced controlled chastity you may engage in a key holding service with Me.
The key holding service I offer does not include a face to face meeting, that would have to booked as a standard session under the usual rate in addition to the keyholding fee, so this would be necessary if you prefer to have a steel padlock and have me actually keep the keys until you can come and see me for some fun release.

Otherwise the key holding fees are £30 a week or £50 a month, this would give you direct contact with me through whatsapp so that I can keep tabs on your chastity including a video chat for your release date if you were unable to book an additional face to face session, and I would occassionally send you some pics and clips to torment you with!

The rate must be paid upfront at the beginning of the week/month and I expect you to remain in chastity for the whole week/month, if you do release yourself from chastity without permission for whatever reason, you will be expected to make another payment of £30/£50 to restart the week/month of key holding service or all whatsapp contact with me will end, the remaining days of the previous week/month you paid for, will not be refunded but kept as a fine for removing the device without my permission.

if you are unable to book additional face to face sessions, then rather than a steel padlock you would use the plastic locks that have individual ID numbers, I will keep a record of the ID number and if I see that it has changed without my permission, as well as your new payment to restart the keyholding service, I will also delay the date of your release and depending on the reason for your device removal I may issue you with a punishment task too.

I will require a verifiable photo from you every day to ensure you have not removed the device, so every day I will send you a new password, you must write this password and the days date on a piece of paper and hold that paper as you take a photo of yourself wearing the device with the ID number I have on record clearly visible. If for whatever reason you do not receive the password, it is your responsibility to chase it up with me and ensure you receive it every day.

You are required to purchase your own chastity device if you do not already have one, as well a pack of the plastic locks with ID numbers.
If you have never been in chastity before and need some information about what to expect, what device to purchase, maintenance and hygiene then you will find all this information in my blog posts.


Financial Domination

There are many ways to dominate you financially and it will all come down to how far you wish to take it. If you are not seeking financial ruin then we will need to discuss your weekly and monthly limit before I set up your schedule.
I can set up a fining system for your actions such as swearing, drinking and eating too much, chatting up other women, sleeping with your wife or driving too fast. You can visit me in session and play financial games with me.
You can take me shopping and pay for everything I demand or face public humiliation and a slap or kick in the balls in the shop! , it's definitely my preferred method, I love to make you pigs sweat!
After sending me a generous gift or donation, proving that you are a genuine & serious money pig, you can then contact me by email with your personal and financial profile so that I may decide how best to take control of your pathetic excuse for an existence, as well as the only thing you could actually ever be useful for, your income :)


Daily Tasks

If you would like to serve Me from a distance you can do so by performing daily tasks selected at random by My task wheel of misfortune.

There are 5 different categories containing 24 tasks per category:
* Humiliation Tasks
* Punishment Tasks
* JOI (Jerk Off Instruction)
* CEI (Cum Eating Intstruction)
* Service Tasks (Special rewards for completing all 24 of these tasks)

You may personally select the category that you would prefer a task from or let the wheel of misfortune decide which category for you.

The tribute for tasks is £5 a spin of the wheel or £10 for 3 spins, (payable by gift card or bank transfer) you will not be given free spins if you decide you do not want to do the tasks that have been selected for you.

If you are able to make a video of you completing a task, upload it to and tag Me in it, you will be rewarded with one free spin. (You may protect your anonymity in this video however you see fit.)

The service task category contains 24 duties that are particularly useful or beneficial to Me, if you are able to complete all 24 tasks (with film or photographic proof – this can be provided privately to Me only and not made public) then I offer a reward of a 2 hour face to face session for the price of 1 hour, or an hour of cam session for the price of half hour.

Keep in mind that the possibility of completing these tasks does also depend on your luck and the wheel of misfortune, while you are able to continually and exclusively select this category at no extra cost, if the spins you have paid for select tasks from this category that you have already completed, then you will have to keep paying for additional spins until the wheel selects the tasks you have not yet completed until you finally hit them all!!

I DO NOT offer sex or sexual services of any kind, nor do I seek sexual services for my own pleasure such as oral sex. I do not offer an escort service.
I am a beautiful woman who has no problem in 'getting my pussy licked' when I want it, from both men and women! I am more than sexually satisfied in my personal life, I don't need a submissive for this and this is not the kind of service I am interested in, but more importantly than that, if it were as simple as eating me out to please Me then I wouldn't be very or kinky or Dominant would I? My sexual needs are far more diverse and complex than that, so please don't presume to know what pleases Me and make offers of that nature. If all you want to do is lick pussy then there are plenty of escorts here on AW who will be happy to accommodate you.

With that being said, when in a Dominant/submissive dynamic I don't have any problem receiving intimate WORSHIP, nor do I have any problems with touching you intimately, I happen to believe that My body and My hands are My best weapons for torturing and tormenting men and along with a range of other tricks and tools I use to trap you in My web, I am not afraid to use them! What I don't like are presumptuous little fucks who think they know what it takes to give me pleasure without ever having met me, or entitled pricks who think they have a birth given right to it. If you act like this I'm likely to torture you with My divine body without EVER giving you access to it and the only time I'll be touching your cock is to use it as My punch bag! Do yourself a favour, drop the entitlement, be respectful... and you could be one of the lucky few who get's close enough to touch...


I AM NOT INTERESTED IN RECEIVING PROPOSALS FROM THOSE LOOKING TO BECOME A PERSONAL SLAVE.
I already have 2 personal slaves that take up a lot of my personal time, they earned that position by coming to see me for regular paid sessions, using that opportunity to impress the shit out of me and physically demonstrating their skills, usefulness and devotion. An email message outlining your skills and experiences is not going to get you what you want, it's just going to be deleted along with the hundreds of other requests I receive like this every week. I can't be expected to just take the word of all of you or waste my precious time auditioning you all either, even If I were in a position to take on more personal slaves this is not the way to get my attention, it will take a damn sight more than an email exchange to be considered for such a privileged position in my private life so please spare me the endless proposals!

I may not offer "full services" but my sessions remain of an adult nature, for this reason you must be over the age of 18 to serve me! If you come for a session and you have a pretty baby face I will ask you for proof of age! Fail to present it and I will refuse to do the session!

I will not perform sessions on persons that I believe to be under the influence of alcohol or other mind altering substances, so make sure you are clean and sober before you present yourself to me.

NO scat, adult baby play, sessions in return for service, sessions including animal waste. No play or reference to minors, and no practices that can be harmful or potentially fatal.

I do not tolerate timewasters, I do not want to engage in endless, fruitless discussions about your sexual fantasies and experiences, nor do I seek virtual or long distance relationships.
I do not want to go on a date, or for dinner or coffee, I am not looking for a companion, I am looking for serious and convinced slaves who are ready to learn. If you want to treat Mistress and take Me out, you will pay for My time.

Do not contact me unless you are aware of your position, I demand respect at all times, a demonstration that you know how to treat a real Mistress, and that you intend to take your sessions with me seriously.

I expect reasonable warning for cancellations. If you fail to attend an appointment without proper warning, you will not be given another booking until you have paid for that and the previously missed booking in full. Fail to attend again, or make tardiness a regular occurance and you will be black listed and lose the opportunity of an appointment with me at all!!

Please use my telephone number with maximum discretion at all times.

I will NEVER respond to private or anonymous numbers so it is pointless to even try. Otherwise if I do not answer it is because I am unable to, so try again later.
Try again later does NOT mean again and again every 30 seconds until you drive me to madness, 20 - 30 minute intervals is polite, every 30 seconds is attention seeking, I do not tolerate impatient and insistent behaviour! If I don't answer it's because I can't, I will be in session or engaged with something else and your persistence will do nothing but cause inconvenience.
If you insist on calling and calling because YOU DEMAND an answer, you will not get an answer at all, EVER.

I am of the opinion that if you are unable to respect me when it comes to the phone, there is little possibility that you will be able to do so in person and so if you insist on being indiscreet or an annoyance you will loose all possibility of a session with me. It's very simple, I also have a private life and I am not in studio 24 hours a day in wait for you, a little common courtesy can go a long way, particularly with the cruel and sadistic bitch you're about to hand your scrawny ass over to...

During My many years as a professional Dominant I have come to learn that the service I provide is much more therapy and education based than anything else. My position has enabled me to establish close personal connections with people's innermost intimate secrets and it is through those connections and thanks to my extensive experience in the adult industry in general that I have been able to help many of My clients - men, women, individuals and couples alike- with a myriad of sexual issues and concerns, ranging from sexual addictions, difficulties within sexual relationships, intimate communication, trust building, improving self-confidence and even overcoming damaging or prohibiting belief systems.

This has led Me to expand My services to sex and intimacy coaching and sexual education in general, I have been exploring this avenue further through studies over the last few years and a couple of years ago I officially qualified as a sexual therapist and intimacy coach and am pleased to offer this additional service to My clients.
As a sexual therapist with a cross over into professional Domination, I specialise particularly in men’s sexual issues, some of the areas I can cover are

Sexual Dysfunction:

*Erectile Dysfunction (ED, Impotence)
*Premature Ejaculation (PE)
*Difficulties experiencing orgasm
*Lack of desire
*Sexual Addictions eg. pornography, sex workers, excessive partners, masturbation

Relationship & Intimacy Coaching:

*Confidence building
*Communication skills / Talking to the opposite sex
*Dating skills
*Fear/Difficulty losing virginity
*Coping with rejection

Sexual Education:

*Practical sexual techniques
*Exploring alternative sexual practices
*Examining negative attitudes about sexuality
*Discovering personal desires and needs

BDSM Related:

*Coming out (to self, partner, or someone else) or fear of others discovering BDSM identity or interests
*Compulsive issues around sexuality or BDSM
*Discomfort with BDSM identity or wanting to extinguish BDSM interests
*Fear of not being able to find partner(s) with compatible desires/interests
*Identifying or recovering from an abusive dynamic in a BDSM relationship
*Guilt and shame about accidentally hurting a partner or crossing a partner’s boundaries
*Lack of clarity around sexual interests or type(s) of sensation or power dynamics that would be most satisfying
*Mismatch in sexual preferences within a relationship
*Difficulty sharing BDSM community space with a former partner after a breakup.
*Guilt and shame about engaging in BDSM practices with professionals outside of marriage/relationships



There are of course many other sexual or intimacy related issues you could be dealing with, you are welcome to approach me with them so we can discuss if helping you with those issues are within my competency.

If you wish to speak with Me anonymously about any of your issues and just seek some advice, the best way to do so is to contact Me through the adultwork chat, I am available there for a few hours most days of the week.

If you think you have things to work through that require more than a chat and a bit of advice you can choose to participate in regular face to face sessions. This will involve completing a sexual history questionnaire which will provide me some insight into the basis for your issues, you would also enter into a therapy contract which outlines your rights as a therapy client.
Please contact me for more information if this is something you interested in doing.

**Disclaimer**
I am not a medical professional nor do I have any medical experience, the type of therapy I provide falls into the category of holistic therapy not clinical therapy.
Holistic therapy, or holistic psychotherapy, refers to a school of thought in therapy that attempts to address an individual as a whole person rather than as someone who is sick or just has psychological issues.
My area of expertise is defined is psycho-dynamic therapy, this means that I will examine various aspects of your personal and professional life in order to discover what could be influencing or affecting your sexuality.

I will examine many different factors that could affect our attitudes about sex, from the kind of education we received to the belief systems we were raised with, to physical and mental health and the many different aspects of our life which can affect how we feel at any given moment, such as major life events, relationship status, how we relate to ourselves, diet and exercise, stresses and triggers, then I will help you to address these things and provide you with tools that most of us are not equipped with when it comes to sex, such as communication, trust and building intimacy.